Be Who You Are

Why is it that we find ourselves doing and saying things around guys we like that we would never do or say around our best friends?

There is no reason for this.

Be who you are because there is only one of you. Being true to yourself is more important than having that certain someone like you.

If you don’t like horror films, don’t pretend you do in order to make him happy or impress him. Men are more attracted to women who are honest and truthful about likes and dislikes.

It’s simple. If he asks you a question, answer truthfully or say “Let’s come back to that question later.” He would rather wait

Don’t be a liar. Be true to yourself.

for the truth than to hear a lie.

This is how all good relationships begin. They are based on truth. They won’t work if they’re based on lies. This is also how we find out if there is anything in common and if it’s possible to have a relationship.

I love the ocean, SCUBA diving, and horseback riding. If I lied and said I don’t, well, then I might get some guy but I would be denying who I am. Men seem to never change for others so maybe we can all take a lesson from them.

Be who you are and the person you are meant to find and be with will appreciate all you have to offer.

Don’t sell yourself short!

Proverbs 24:26 An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.

 

One comment

  1. Devastator says:

    Well put.