On The DL is a 30-something with a sensitive soul. She admits she “loves too much.” She has gentle advice to give because she knows the importance of loving and being loved but at the same time she’s willing to talk frankly about sex and whether it’s important or not to maintain a healthy relationship. Married for nearly two years, On the DL is thoughtful and has admitted, though, that she has been caught over-thinking now and then. She’s dedicated to family but admits that she struggles to understand and relate to some of her relations.