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Gray Shadows And Bright Lights

Sometime during my teens I watched the 1986 movie “Soul Man” starring C. Thomas Howell. He played a spoiled rich fella who, in order to get into Harvard after his wealthy family refused to pay for college, ingested drugs to make his skin darken. He thus looked African American and became eligible for a minority scholarship.

One of the scenes that resonated with me involved a white woman–played by Melora Hardin later of the television show “The Office”– who made it a mission to hook up with men of color.

She says dramatically to Howell’s character while she’s seducing him that she doesn’t see black or white, only shades of gray.


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Healthy Dose Of Schadenfreude

For those of us that are unfamiliar with the term Schadenfreude, it is when a person takes pleasure in the failure of another person.

Schadenfreude can also be, and usually is, a personal experience. For instance, you have labored for years as an artist and you know someone has had a taste of success on a level above where you currently exist and you harbor a bit of competitive resentment. Then one day you hear about how he or she got drunk at an art opening and insulted a prominent critic or affluent supporter of the arts.
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