I think the big meeting places for finding potential mates back in the day were houses of worship and barn raisings. You would go to church or temple and hear the quiet bachelor farmer Wrzesinski was lookin’ for a wife. Lo and behold, you became Mrs. Wrzesinska and began a life of making a lot of food for the farm hands.

I didn’t make up the surname. That’s one in my family history.

My point is that times have changed. A Gallup poll shows 41% of Americans report they regularly attend religious services.

That’s one reason match.com, plentyoffish.com, and OK Cupid exist. People want to meet somewhere and there are few barn raisings anymore. There’s so little stigma attached to online dating now. I’ve been there and done that and so have countless other people who I like and admire.
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