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Does Same Sex Marriage Have To Be Gay?

One of my university colleagues posted a provocative question on his Facebook page. Scott was inspired by recent debates and laws about same-sex marriage and asked the following:

For your consideration. Does same sex marriage have to be “gay?” Considering the number of sexless and marriages of convenience, could two persons of the same sex be married and not gay?

Scott’s questions led to a robust conversation.

Jillian: You mean could two people not have sex and still be or want to get married? Yes. Being gay isn’t solely predicated on who you have sex with, but attraction and love.

Art: I was married for about 12 years. It was the same sex most of the time.
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Control Your Passion

16 February 2013 / High Hopes / One comment

Personally I feel it is necessary to wait until I say “I do” before I have sex with someone.

I recently found myself in a short-lived relationship when my heart was not okay sealing the deal. The truth came out from me and honesty had to take the wheel. He is no longer talking to me because some men count sex as true love.
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Imagining Sex Where It Is Not

8 January 2013 / Sip and Go Girl / 4 comments

I’ve been to Las Vegas, Nevada perhaps eight times. Most recently, I was there for my birthday in April 2012 with my sister Renee’ and her husband Eric. I also met Renee’ there for a Kylie Minogue concert in 2009. The rest of my visits have been for media and academic conventions.

I’ve been there enough times that I know Vegas is a unique place. It’s a place that creates and perpetuates the fantasy. A fantasy that it’s all about sex.

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What Is A Sip And Go Girl?

19 November 2012 / Sip and Go Girl / One comment

By: Sip and Go Girl

What is a Sip and Go Girl? People aren’t sure.

I knew people were unclear about the name when a former TV station colleague in California commented that more women than men would visit this website because, “Men aren’t genteel enough to sip.” Another friend recently suggested we meet up for a sip and go. And yet another person first thought the phrase was a euphemism for sex.
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Let’s Get Physical

14 November 2012 / On the DL / Comments Off

By: On the DL

I was racking my brain trying to think of a topic for my debut article when Olivia Newton-John’s “Physical” popped into my head. Not sure why that happened. My brain is funny like that sometimes. But the tune turned out to be a brilliant muse.

Now, as much as I love exercise and cheesy music videos of Olivia sweatin’ it out in a gym, I’m not going to talk about that kind of physical. That’s right, I’m talking about sex (or anything related to sexual activity).
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Paul Ryan Is A Snuggler

11 November 2012 / Sip and Go Girl / 2 comments

By: Sip and Go Girl

Paul Ryan is a snuggler.

It doesn’t matter which way you lean politically or who you voted for November 6.

Republican Vice Presidential candidate Paul Ryan is a snuggler. I can just tell. I’ve been a snuggler all my life and gosh darn it I know a snuggler when I see him. Or her.

My mother used to have two small ceramic figurines that she set on the windowsill above her kitchen sink. One figure was a bird. It represented my sister because my sister’s nickname is Tweety Bird. She was born with a big head and little body.

The other figure was a bunny rabbit. That was me because I was a Snuggle Bunny. I liked to cuddle up with my mother when I was little. Well apparently little has changed in a few decades. I still like to snuggle. The desire grows in times of trial and tribulation. Translation? When things are kind of sucky, I need the snuggle. And never underestimate the importance of snuggling with your friends and family.