True friends and members of my close family found out many years ago the secret. Don’t tell me what to do.
When my sister Renee’ and I were kids, our parents John and Ann created “chore charts” for us. They were hand made calendars, one for Renee’ and one for me. On it were the days of the week cross-listed with various chores including emptying the dishwasher, folding socks, emptying waste baskets, and taking out the garbage. I liked the chart and how it kept me on a nice, little
As I got older and chore charts drifted into the past, chore completion became less regimented. If I noticed the dishwasher needed to be unloaded, then I’d unload it.
But if my parents were to suddenly ask me to unload the dishwasher that day, I would bristle.
Don’t tell me what to do.
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