Wild One, a contributor for sipandgogirl.com, and I have talked a lot about men. I love her insight because she’s less of an overthinker than I am. Both of us are very practical and down to earth but she’s less emotional than I am.

She sent me a text during an August 2012 conversation about not knowing the motivations of men.

Guys need to be like pop up videos with captions that we can read about what’s going on in the inside.

While it seems like a cool notion, it’s not really. The reason it’s not so great is because even if we were able to read people’s thoughts, those thoughts would probably not be totally accurate. That’s because people think they want or mean something.

But they don’t.
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