You’ve heard the phrase “he’s just not that into you.”
I argue a guy can avoid you because he once was too into you.
At least twice recently, I had conversations with women about men from their pasts. In both cases my two friends knew the men from workplaces, were close friends or at least kind of fooled around with them, had lost touch over the years, and had slightly reconnected via Facebook
But both female friends said roughly the same thing to me.
“He doesn’t show any interest in maintaining the friendship we used to have.”
My response to both of the women is “He was too into you.”